Definition of problem
A situation, matter, or person that presents perplexity or difficulty: was having problems breathing; considered the main problem to be his boss. See Usage Note at dilemma.
Jingying just reminded me indirectly, that sometimes it's not about how others advices you, but it's how you deal with your mind/heart. (something chim from her, unexpected seriously. JOKING! :D love you jy!)
But yeah, it's so true. Problems always causes and lands us in a dilemma, like a maze, and we can't walk out of it. & no matter how, what, who when, whatever you do, you can't seem to walk out of it.
So back to what Jy had said, just now when i was playing the guitar, i guess God just reminded me, it's not about what the problem can do to you, but what you can do to the problem. You are bigger than the problem! & Sometimes problems just starts with ourselves. Not with others who caused that problem, but it's just you. & to solve it, we must deal with it ourselves.
Unless we deal with this problem, it will always keep coming back to us, we got to find the solution within us, not just wait for the problem to solve by itself.
Meanwhile, i know God will give me the strength to find this solution within me.
I knew this logos word, but now it became my rhema word.
God change me
but ya, sometimes i'm sick of competitions.