Sunday, January 16, 2011

friends

Thought to self, isn't it very awesome to have like-minded people around you? that your topics never ever end and you can go on forever forever?

Had one of the longest talk on msn w Sarah and it's one of the longest and ongoing one ever since im super inactive in msn nowadays. random stuff but something tt both of us was thinking inside and we go on and on and on.

Read this on twitter one day, when silence is comfortable with this friend, it shows that he/she is your true friend. Quite true right? like silence is usually awkward at times, but it's difference when u feel a diff atmosphere in tt silence.. Just enjoying each other's presence even in silence.

One thing that i'm thinking about recently,
FRIENDS. 

What's the role of a friend and what's the role to play?
& today while talking to jy on the train, i realise something..

Friends, do not have to sms everyday
Friends, do not have to talk everyday
Friends, do not have to spend everyday tgt
Friends, do not have to meet up everyday

But a friend who is there everytime when we need them,
W a spirit that flows with you, who knows what you want and meets ur needs....
W a heart of love, acceptance and not condemnation when you're having a bad day and having the worse attitude ever, and all the differences between both of you.

& most imptly, cares more about the friendship, rather than their own 'face' when you and him/her gets into the fight and says sorry first.

& actually there's more to being a friend... and i'm praying that i can learn to be a better friend.
Just like learning to be a lover, a parent, a daughter/son and all, we're not born perfect to be a person, but we all learn to be a better someone to another person.

When we start to give, we start to receive.
You want love, give love.

But now.... on my way to learn to be a better friend.
Thankful for all the friends placed around me.
Friends i havent been spending time w, friends who made me who i am today, friends who love me just the way i am. Thank you guys.

& most imptly, thankful for my Best Friend.
But still time is very impt to build relationship! not saying dont dont spend time at all k!!!
Time to spend time w my favourite Person. (: